"I feel life is a journey and we all have to learn to ride the storm, for some of us it can seem more like a tidal wave, but with every storm the sun eventually comes back out."
--Alyson Bradley
I remember when my next door neighbors moved in; I was excited because the family had a little boy that my daughter could play with. It was some time before we met the family, but the little boy, Connor was outside all the time. Connor played and played, but it was playing line none other I had seen before. Connor was in the front yard for what seemed like hours, picking up leaves and dropping them to the ground. He repeated the action over and over again not stopping till his mom and dad called him inside. We of course finally met Connor and his family and although he was a playmate for my daughter, again the playing was very different from what I imagined. Connor is Autistic, and although he did not mind being around my daughter, the two never engaged one another. My daughter was in her imaginative world of dolls and castles while Connor was in his play world of repeated actions. Over and over, he rolled the wheels of a car. He seemed content in his world, but as his mom would tell me she so wished she could be part of that world. Connor she would tell me hated to be hugged and touched. She was an outsider in her own son’s world, struggling to get in, but not quite making it. Connor and his family became close friends with our family, and we even at times cared for Connor while his mom had to work. Connor was never any trouble, loved to eat apples with my daughter, sitting alongside her playing with the wheels on a car or truck. Connor had lots of language, but for the most part spoke when spoken to. He was in an inclusive program at school, as began to blossom more and more, trying to engage in interactions. He still loved throwing leaves and rocks up and down in the front yard for what seemed like hours.
I had always wanted to unlock the mind of a child like Connor, allowing him and his family to connect. Now it seems I am encountering more and more children like Connor through my work; some more severe than others, but all falling somewhere on the Autism spectrum. Matt a child in my program uses sign language to communicate; he has no language, but when I look into his eyes, I can see sparkles of understanding and recognition. He is not blank, but full of ideas and promise that are struggling to be set free. Tommy has a difficult time sitting close to friends and finds noise unbearable. Often times he covers his ears screaming, “It’s too loud!” Other times he can’t sit still, but needs to be moving, moving, and moving. Matt has been evaluated and diagnosed, Tommy has not. Tommy is in the beginning stages of being evaluated.
These children have such potential and an even greater amount of love and empathy to share with those around them. I would like to unlock the mind of children with Autism. My research would focus on treatments to do just that. Such a contribution would allow children like Matt, Tommy and Connor greater opportunities for learning. Developmentally children with Autism would on par with other children. They would no longer be seen as different, their behavior being questioned, but the same as their peers. They would be able to share what they have learned while also excelling academically. Children with Autism would be able to experience relationships and interactions, feeling connected with those around them. Children with Autism would be able to experience childhood and life with a greater sense of normalcy.
"I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, It's a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, And that enables you to laugh at life's realities."
-- Dr Seuss